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Saudi Woman to Receive TEN LASHES for DRIVING (WIDK)
(BBC) — A court in Saudi Arabia has sentenced a woman to 10 lashes for breaking the country’s ban on female drivers.

The woman, identified only as Shema, was found guilty of driving in Jeddah in July.
Women2drive, which campaigns for women to be allowed to drive in Saudi Arabia, says she has already lodged an appeal.
In recent months, scores of women have driven vehicles in Saudi cities in an effort to put pressure on the monarchy to change the law.
The sentence comes two days after the Saudi leader King Abdullah announced women would be allowed to vote for the first time in 2015.
Two other women are due to appear in court later this year on similar charges, correspondents say.
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Saudi Woman to Receive TEN LASHES for DRIVING (WIDK)

(BBC) — A court in Saudi Arabia has sentenced a woman to 10 lashes for breaking the country’s ban on female drivers.

The woman, identified only as Shema, was found guilty of driving in Jeddah in July.

Women2drive, which campaigns for women to be allowed to drive in Saudi Arabia, says she has already lodged an appeal.

In recent months, scores of women have driven vehicles in Saudi cities in an effort to put pressure on the monarchy to change the law.

The sentence comes two days after the Saudi leader King Abdullah announced women would be allowed to vote for the first time in 2015.

Two other women are due to appear in court later this year on similar charges, correspondents say.

‘SlutWalk’ Comes To South Africa, Where Rape Is Crisis (WIDK)
Submitted to WIDK by Bianca Coombs
(Schalk Vanzuydam,  Associated Press) - CAPE TOWN, South Africa (AP) — Women draped sexy lingerie over their street clothes as they marched through Cape Town on Saturday, bringing an international campaign against the notion that a woman’s appearance can excuse attacks to a country where rape is seen as a national crisis.

Some 2,000 protesters walked a route where fans partied during last year’s football World Cup. Men joined in, some of them wearing miniskirts in solidarity. Some protesters pushed their children in strollers and carried signs declaring, “Rapists rape people, not outfits,” and “Weak men rape.”
“SlutWalks” originated in Toronto, Canada, where they were sparked by a police officer’s remark that women could avoid being raped by not dressing like “sluts.”
“It’s very important that women should understand that their dignity should not be taken away from them,” said Tayla Orgill, who was among the Cape Town walkers.
According to the most recent police statistics, more than 55,000 cases of rape and indecent assault were reported in South Africa from 2009 to 2010. The number of sexual offenses against women climbed nearly 20 percent from the previous year, according to police.
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‘SlutWalk’ Comes To South Africa, Where Rape Is Crisis (WIDK)

Submitted to WIDK by Bianca Coombs

(Schalk Vanzuydam,  Associated Press) - CAPE TOWN, South Africa (AP) — Women draped sexy lingerie over their street clothes as they marched through Cape Town on Saturday, bringing an international campaign against the notion that a woman’s appearance can excuse attacks to a country where rape is seen as a national crisis.

Some 2,000 protesters walked a route where fans partied during last year’s football World Cup. Men joined in, some of them wearing miniskirts in solidarity. Some protesters pushed their children in strollers and carried signs declaring, “Rapists rape people, not outfits,” and “Weak men rape.”

“SlutWalks” originated in Toronto, Canada, where they were sparked by a police officer’s remark that women could avoid being raped by not dressing like “sluts.”

“It’s very important that women should understand that their dignity should not be taken away from them,” said Tayla Orgill, who was among the Cape Town walkers.

According to the most recent police statistics, more than 55,000 cases of rape and indecent assault were reported in South Africa from 2009 to 2010. The number of sexual offenses against women climbed nearly 20 percent from the previous year, according to police.

New Game in Town – The LINGERIE BASKETBALL LEAGUE (WIDK)
(Daily Mail) — Dressed in skimpy neon outfits, these are the scantily-clad female players being used to draw more interest to women’s basketball.

Teams playing in the Lingerie Basketball League have to strip to their bras and panties for the games, which are proving popular with male fans.
Four teams – the Beauties, Divas, Glam and Starlets – compete each week in the games being played in LA.
But the revealing matches have been criticized for setting back women’s sports.
Sports publicist Angie Meyer defended the lingerie league and said it is a serious contest.
‘On paper, it looks and sounds derogatory towards women,’ she told Fox News.
‘However, when you sit down and watch the intense athleticism of these women, you learn the league is much more than a pretty powder-puff team.’
Tickets for the Friday night games, which are only open to over 18 year olds, cost between $20 and $40.
The scantily-dressed women are being used to bring a new crowd to the sport.
‘It does seem as though the popularity of a particular women’s sport is often unfortunately tied to how attractive its stars are,’ said Larry Tobin, former Vice President of Fox Sports Interactive.
‘Mostly though, women’s sports suffer from the same problems that most of the non-big four men’s sports do,’ he told Fox News.
‘They are fighting for mind-share against long established leagues where a fan’s team ties run deep, and it is very difficult to convert someone’s time from one sport to another without an incredibly compelling story.’
The league is an offshoot of the Lingerie Football League.
Jessica Hopkins, who plays for Seattle Storm in the football league, told Fox News: ‘It’s not fair [for women to have to wear so little] but we all know sex sells.’
‘I’d much prefer to have my skin covered when playing tackle football on hard astro turf, but the lingerie and sexy aspect of our game is what gets people interested and once they come see us play.’
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New Game in Town – The LINGERIE BASKETBALL LEAGUE (WIDK)

(Daily Mail) — Dressed in skimpy neon outfits, these are the scantily-clad female players being used to draw more interest to women’s basketball.

Teams playing in the Lingerie Basketball League have to strip to their bras and panties for the games, which are proving popular with male fans.

Four teams – the Beauties, Divas, Glam and Starlets – compete each week in the games being played in LA.

But the revealing matches have been criticized for setting back women’s sports.

Sports publicist Angie Meyer defended the lingerie league and said it is a serious contest.

‘On paper, it looks and sounds derogatory towards women,’ she told Fox News.

‘However, when you sit down and watch the intense athleticism of these women, you learn the league is much more than a pretty powder-puff team.’

Tickets for the Friday night games, which are only open to over 18 year olds, cost between $20 and $40.

The scantily-dressed women are being used to bring a new crowd to the sport.

‘It does seem as though the popularity of a particular women’s sport is often unfortunately tied to how attractive its stars are,’ said Larry Tobin, former Vice President of Fox Sports Interactive.

‘Mostly though, women’s sports suffer from the same problems that most of the non-big four men’s sports do,’ he told Fox News.

‘They are fighting for mind-share against long established leagues where a fan’s team ties run deep, and it is very difficult to convert someone’s time from one sport to another without an incredibly compelling story.’

The league is an offshoot of the Lingerie Football League.

Jessica Hopkins, who plays for Seattle Storm in the football league, told Fox News: ‘It’s not fair [for women to have to wear so little] but we all know sex sells.’

‘I’d much prefer to have my skin covered when playing tackle football on hard astro turf, but the lingerie and sexy aspect of our game is what gets people interested and once they come see us play.’

Rape, Mutilation: Pakistan’s Tribal Justice For Women (WIDK)
MULTAN, Pakistan (Reuters) - On April 14, two men entered Asma Firdous’ home, cut off six of her fingers, slashed her arms and lips and then sliced off her nose. Before leaving the house, the men locked their 28-year-old victim inside.

Asma, from impoverished Kohaur Junobi village in Pakistan’s south, was mutilated because her husband was involved in a dispute with his relatives, and they wanted revenge.
Her fate is familiar in parts of Pakistan’s remote and feudal agricultural belts, where women are often used as bargaining chips in family feuds, and where the level of violence they face is increasing in frequency and brutality.
At the hospital in nearby Multan town, Asma’s shocked parents sat quietly by her bedside and struggled to explain what the future holds for their now disfigured daughter.
“I don’t know what will happen to her when she leaves here,” Asma’s father, Ghulam Mustafa, said, in a dilapidated ward heavy with the smell of antiseptic and blood, where other women, doused with acid or kerosene by relatives or fellow villagers, awaiting an equally uncertain future.
Asked if Asma will return to her husband, her father remains silent.
Pakistan is the world’s third-most dangerous country for women, after Afghanistan and the Democratic Republic of Congo, based on a survey conducted by the Thomson Reuters Foundation (http://link.reuters.com/jet92s)
In its 2010 report, the Human Rights Commission of Pakistan says almost 800 women were victims of “honor killings” — murders aimed at preserving the honor of male relatives — and 2,900 women reported raped — almost eight a day.
The bulk, or almost 2,600, were raped in Punjab alone, Pakistan’s most populous province.
And the numbers are rising: media reports say crimes against women have risen 18 percent in the year to May and the human rights commission believes its figures represent only a fraction of the attacks which take place across the country.
Dr. Farzana Bari, director of Gender Studies at Quaid-e-Azam University, says Pakistan’s patriarchal society often condones discrimination against women, which is more prevalent among poor and uneducated rural families.
That mindset can often influence the police and judiciary, which sometimes turn a blind eye to honor killings or rapes carried out to “punish” women.
“I think honor killings are a symptom of vigilante justice,” she said. “And vigilante justice occurs in an environment where the state is unable to enforce its writ.”
TRIBAL JUSTICE
In rural areas, women are often shut out of the justice system, which is compromised by powerful landowners and feudal lords who dominate a hierarchy that makes it difficult — and deadly — for those with little education or social standing to speak out.
Families or tribes then often take justice in their own hands, presiding over “jirgas” or “panchayats” — gatherings of elders that hand down punishments that include rape, killing or barter of women for crimes that include falling in love with a man deemed inappropriate or besmirching family honor.
Some women are maimed just to settle scores.
Members of the panchayat systems say the tradition is hard to shake because it is entrenched in the local culture and also because it is much more efficient than the regular courts.
“In the settled areas there are courts but people can’t always get justice or compensation,” said lawyer and tribal elder Karim Masoud, who presides over both panchayat settlements and the mainstream court system.
“With the jirgas, they can get compensation, and it takes less time to settle a dispute. It’s fairer and people don’t have to use bribes to get justice.”
Zarmuhamad Afridi, who also attends jirga rulings in Pakistan’s northern tribal belt and works within the mainstream court system, said the jirga system survives because in many parts of Pakistan, a man’s honor is intrinsically linked to how his wife or daughter behave.
“If a couple is not married and they are having a relationship, a jirga may rule that the woman should be shot,” Afridi said. “That is okay for many, because they have to protect family honor.”
The slightest transgression by a woman — being seen talking to a man on the street, perhaps, or having an unknown phone number in a mobile — can bring harsh punishment and social ostracism of the family, he says, making the quick, harsh judgment of the panchayats popular.
“Women are cherished here,” he said. “Men protect them. If a woman is out of her house then what is she doing? That is what people think here.”
Many women are unable to speak out because they lack the support and education to understand their rights, activists say.
But even those who dare often get nowhere.
The most high profile instance of a violent ruling by a tribal court against a woman is that of the gang rape of Mukhtaran Mai, which took place near Multan in 2002.
Mai was allegedly attacked to settle a matter of village honor, as decided by a panchayat. She was then paraded naked through her village.
Unlike most rape victims, who face stark recriminations for speaking out, and who are sometimes even expected to commit suicide, she filed a criminal case against 14 men.
Six men were convicted and sentenced to death that year, but in 2005 the Lahore High Court commuted one sentence to life in prison and acquitted the rest.
Pakistan’s Supreme Court upheld that decision in April this year, in what rights activists said was a crushing blow to women’s and minority rights in Pakistan.
The men were released days later. Mai said she is afraid they will return and kill her.
Ali Dayan Hasan, senior researcher at Human Rights Watch’s South Asia division, said the lack of justice for women in cases like such as Mai’s is “a structural failing of the criminal justice system”.
“The verdict also lays bare the misogyny of Pakistan’s judicial system because it is a judiciary that is instinctively unsympathetic to women.”
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Rape, Mutilation: Pakistan’s Tribal Justice For Women (WIDK)

MULTAN, Pakistan (Reuters) - On April 14, two men entered Asma Firdous’ home, cut off six of her fingers, slashed her arms and lips and then sliced off her nose. Before leaving the house, the men locked their 28-year-old victim inside.

Asma, from impoverished Kohaur Junobi village in Pakistan’s south, was mutilated because her husband was involved in a dispute with his relatives, and they wanted revenge.

Her fate is familiar in parts of Pakistan’s remote and feudal agricultural belts, where women are often used as bargaining chips in family feuds, and where the level of violence they face is increasing in frequency and brutality.

At the hospital in nearby Multan town, Asma’s shocked parents sat quietly by her bedside and struggled to explain what the future holds for their now disfigured daughter.

“I don’t know what will happen to her when she leaves here,” Asma’s father, Ghulam Mustafa, said, in a dilapidated ward heavy with the smell of antiseptic and blood, where other women, doused with acid or kerosene by relatives or fellow villagers, awaiting an equally uncertain future.

Asked if Asma will return to her husband, her father remains silent.

Pakistan is the world’s third-most dangerous country for women, after Afghanistan and the Democratic Republic of Congo, based on a survey conducted by the Thomson Reuters Foundation (http://link.reuters.com/jet92s)

In its 2010 report, the Human Rights Commission of Pakistan says almost 800 women were victims of “honor killings” — murders aimed at preserving the honor of male relatives — and 2,900 women reported raped — almost eight a day.

The bulk, or almost 2,600, were raped in Punjab alone, Pakistan’s most populous province.

And the numbers are rising: media reports say crimes against women have risen 18 percent in the year to May and the human rights commission believes its figures represent only a fraction of the attacks which take place across the country.

Dr. Farzana Bari, director of Gender Studies at Quaid-e-Azam University, says Pakistan’s patriarchal society often condones discrimination against women, which is more prevalent among poor and uneducated rural families.

That mindset can often influence the police and judiciary, which sometimes turn a blind eye to honor killings or rapes carried out to “punish” women.

“I think honor killings are a symptom of vigilante justice,” she said. “And vigilante justice occurs in an environment where the state is unable to enforce its writ.”

TRIBAL JUSTICE

In rural areas, women are often shut out of the justice system, which is compromised by powerful landowners and feudal lords who dominate a hierarchy that makes it difficult — and deadly — for those with little education or social standing to speak out.

Families or tribes then often take justice in their own hands, presiding over “jirgas” or “panchayats” — gatherings of elders that hand down punishments that include rape, killing or barter of women for crimes that include falling in love with a man deemed inappropriate or besmirching family honor.

Some women are maimed just to settle scores.

Members of the panchayat systems say the tradition is hard to shake because it is entrenched in the local culture and also because it is much more efficient than the regular courts.

“In the settled areas there are courts but people can’t always get justice or compensation,” said lawyer and tribal elder Karim Masoud, who presides over both panchayat settlements and the mainstream court system.

“With the jirgas, they can get compensation, and it takes less time to settle a dispute. It’s fairer and people don’t have to use bribes to get justice.”

Zarmuhamad Afridi, who also attends jirga rulings in Pakistan’s northern tribal belt and works within the mainstream court system, said the jirga system survives because in many parts of Pakistan, a man’s honor is intrinsically linked to how his wife or daughter behave.

“If a couple is not married and they are having a relationship, a jirga may rule that the woman should be shot,” Afridi said. “That is okay for many, because they have to protect family honor.”

The slightest transgression by a woman — being seen talking to a man on the street, perhaps, or having an unknown phone number in a mobile — can bring harsh punishment and social ostracism of the family, he says, making the quick, harsh judgment of the panchayats popular.

“Women are cherished here,” he said. “Men protect them. If a woman is out of her house then what is she doing? That is what people think here.”

Many women are unable to speak out because they lack the support and education to understand their rights, activists say.

But even those who dare often get nowhere.

The most high profile instance of a violent ruling by a tribal court against a woman is that of the gang rape of Mukhtaran Mai, which took place near Multan in 2002.

Mai was allegedly attacked to settle a matter of village honor, as decided by a panchayat. She was then paraded naked through her village.

Unlike most rape victims, who face stark recriminations for speaking out, and who are sometimes even expected to commit suicide, she filed a criminal case against 14 men.

Six men were convicted and sentenced to death that year, but in 2005 the Lahore High Court commuted one sentence to life in prison and acquitted the rest.

Pakistan’s Supreme Court upheld that decision in April this year, in what rights activists said was a crushing blow to women’s and minority rights in Pakistan.

The men were released days later. Mai said she is afraid they will return and kill her.

Ali Dayan Hasan, senior researcher at Human Rights Watch’s South Asia division, said the lack of justice for women in cases like such as Mai’s is “a structural failing of the criminal justice system”.

“The verdict also lays bare the misogyny of Pakistan’s judicial system because it is a judiciary that is instinctively unsympathetic to women.”

‘No Bra Thursday’ and ‘Miniskirt Monday’ - Woman Sues Over Boss’ Dress Schedule (WIDK)
(Daily Mail ) - An office manager is suing her former employer, claiming her boss at the time gave her a Monday to Friday schedule of how to dress, including ‘Tube-top Tuesday’ and ‘No bra Thursday.’

Trudy Nycole Anderson, 44, of Utah County, Utah, claims she was sexually harassed and is seeking undisclosed damages
She filed the suit in U.S. District Court against Derek Wright, the owner of Lone Peak Controls and D&L Electric Control Company.
Miss Anderson says the dress code schedule given to her was: Mini-skirt Monday, Tube-top Tuesday, Wet T-shirt Wednesday, No bra Thursday and Bikini top Friday.
During her employment, Mr Wright ‘repeatedly asked Miss Anderson about her breast size and talked about her breasts in front of other employees,’ the complaint states.
According to the complaint he also allegedly asked her to show him her breasts and inquired about whether she shaved her pubic area.
Wright allegedly slapped Anderson on her buttocks at least twice and asked the woman for oral sex on several occasions, the complaint states.
When she told Wright, who was her supervisor, that she needed to take time away from the office for a medical appointment, he allegedly told Miss Anderson that he would ‘give her a mammogram for free.’
The Salt Lake Tribune reports that Wright also allegedly told Miss Anderson he was installing a shower in the office so the two could shower together.
He allegedly offered her a recipe for ‘sex cake’ and she claims he purchased a product that he sprayed around the office, saying it was ‘meant to arouse women.’
Miss Anderson said Wright viewed pornography in the office and in 2007, the year she started, he brought her a document stating that she would agree to allow him to sexually harass her.
The complaint states that if Anderson didn’t sign the document, Wright told her she would lose her job.
Wright knew Anderson was a single mother of three and was an easy target because she wasn’t in a position to quit her job, the lawsuit claims.
Anderson is suing under Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964, claiming she reported the sexual harassment and Wright retaliated by firing her in February 2011.
She is also suing for battery, in connection with an incident where Wright allegedly slapped her; negligent infliction of emotional distress; and intentional infliction of emotional distress.
‘Miss Anderson has lost wages’ since the firing, her lawsuit states. ‘As a result of the stress and emotional trauma of this experience, Ms. Anderson has been losing sleep, seeking professional help and has ulcers.’
‘Wright’s outrageous conduct described in this complaint offends generally accepted standards of decency and morality in this community,’ the complaint states.
The case has been assigned to U.S. Magistrate Samuel Alba.
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‘No Bra Thursday’ and ‘Miniskirt Monday’ - Woman Sues Over Boss’ Dress Schedule (WIDK)

(Daily Mail ) - An office manager is suing her former employer, claiming her boss at the time gave her a Monday to Friday schedule of how to dress, including ‘Tube-top Tuesday’ and ‘No bra Thursday.’

Trudy Nycole Anderson, 44, of Utah County, Utah, claims she was sexually harassed and is seeking undisclosed damages

She filed the suit in U.S. District Court against Derek Wright, the owner of Lone Peak Controls and D&L Electric Control Company.

Miss Anderson says the dress code schedule given to her was: Mini-skirt Monday, Tube-top Tuesday, Wet T-shirt Wednesday, No bra Thursday and Bikini top Friday.

During her employment, Mr Wright ‘repeatedly asked Miss Anderson about her breast size and talked about her breasts in front of other employees,’ the complaint states.

According to the complaint he also allegedly asked her to show him her breasts and inquired about whether she shaved her pubic area.

Wright allegedly slapped Anderson on her buttocks at least twice and asked the woman for oral sex on several occasions, the complaint states.

When she told Wright, who was her supervisor, that she needed to take time away from the office for a medical appointment, he allegedly told Miss Anderson that he would ‘give her a mammogram for free.’

The Salt Lake Tribune reports that Wright also allegedly told Miss Anderson he was installing a shower in the office so the two could shower together.

He allegedly offered her a recipe for ‘sex cake’ and she claims he purchased a product that he sprayed around the office, saying it was ‘meant to arouse women.’

Miss Anderson said Wright viewed pornography in the office and in 2007, the year she started, he brought her a document stating that she would agree to allow him to sexually harass her.

The complaint states that if Anderson didn’t sign the document, Wright told her she would lose her job.

Wright knew Anderson was a single mother of three and was an easy target because she wasn’t in a position to quit her job, the lawsuit claims.

Anderson is suing under Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964, claiming she reported the sexual harassment and Wright retaliated by firing her in February 2011.

She is also suing for battery, in connection with an incident where Wright allegedly slapped her; negligent infliction of emotional distress; and intentional infliction of emotional distress.

‘Miss Anderson has lost wages’ since the firing, her lawsuit states. ‘As a result of the stress and emotional trauma of this experience, Ms. Anderson has been losing sleep, seeking professional help and has ulcers.’

‘Wright’s outrageous conduct described in this complaint offends generally accepted standards of decency and morality in this community,’ the complaint states.

The case has been assigned to U.S. Magistrate Samuel Alba.

Waitresses Forced To Get FACELIFTS in North Korea (WIDK)
(Robert Johnson, Daily NK) - The latest bizarre news from North Korea is that waitresses at all state-owned foreign restaurants must get facelifts.

A source with a long history of visits to Pyongyang explained to The Daily NK yesterday, “When I was in Pyongyang last year, I heard from someone related to the North that since the start of the 2000s all waitresses had double eyelid surgery on Kim Jong Il’s instructions,” and added, “It seems that Kim Jong Il places great importance on the appearance of workers in restaurants earning foreign currency.”
According to the source, the target of Kim Jong Il’s requirements includes workers at restaurants within Pyongyang fraternized by foreigners, including Korean and international restaurants in the Yanggakdo and Koryo Hotels, coffee shops and other shops. But it also includes those sent to work in China (Beijing, Shanghai, Shenyang, Yanji), Southeast Asia (Thailand, Vietnam, Laos and Cambodia), the Middle East (Dubai), Nepal, the Kaesong Industrial Complex and Kaesong.
Sources say the girls are mostly young university students born in Pyongyang who receive the surgery for about $17 and are closely watched while abroad.
According to Slate, around 100 North-Korea-owned restaurants worldwide serve delicacies like barbecued cuttlefish, dog meat soup, a mountainous selection of kim chi and uniquely Pyongyang products like bear and ginseng wine for enhanced virility. The prices are steep and all listed in U.S. dollars.
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Waitresses Forced To Get FACELIFTS in North Korea (WIDK)

(Robert Johnson, Daily NK) - The latest bizarre news from North Korea is that waitresses at all state-owned foreign restaurants must get facelifts.

A source with a long history of visits to Pyongyang explained to The Daily NK yesterday, “When I was in Pyongyang last year, I heard from someone related to the North that since the start of the 2000s all waitresses had double eyelid surgery on Kim Jong Il’s instructions,” and added, “It seems that Kim Jong Il places great importance on the appearance of workers in restaurants earning foreign currency.”

According to the source, the target of Kim Jong Il’s requirements includes workers at restaurants within Pyongyang fraternized by foreigners, including Korean and international restaurants in the Yanggakdo and Koryo Hotels, coffee shops and other shops. But it also includes those sent to work in China (Beijing, Shanghai, Shenyang, Yanji), Southeast Asia (Thailand, Vietnam, Laos and Cambodia), the Middle East (Dubai), Nepal, the Kaesong Industrial Complex and Kaesong.

Sources say the girls are mostly young university students born in Pyongyang who receive the surgery for about $17 and are closely watched while abroad.

According to Slate, around 100 North-Korea-owned restaurants worldwide serve delicacies like barbecued cuttlefish, dog meat soup, a mountainous selection of kim chi and uniquely Pyongyang products like bear and ginseng wine for enhanced virility. The prices are steep and all listed in U.S. dollars.

India’s First ‘SLUTWALK’ - What Will It Do For Women’s Rights? (WIDK)
NEW DELHI (Economic Times) - Raising their voice against sexual stereotype and gender prejudice rampant across India, hundreds of women participated in the first ever ‘Slutwalk’ in New Delhi on Sunday.

Amid much hype, the ‘Slutwalk’, held in the heart of the national capital, saw active attendance of scores of activists and locals from all walks of life, who urged the society to change the attitude of judging women based on their attire.
Organised by the ‘Besharmi Morcha’, a civil society forum working against sexual violence, the movement aimed at putting forth a serious message-no matter what the attire, sexual assault is unjustified.
Shouting slogans and raising posters and placards, activists vented their ire at the common chauvinistic prejudice that aims to allegedly justify sexual aggregation by blaming the action on ‘provocatory dresses worn by the victim.
Extending solidarity with the cause, certain activists said the campaign could help dispel attitudes and double standards about sexual assault.
“We are organising a protest against the sick mindset of the society that decides to blame women rather than perpetrators of the crime,” said Neha Sharma, an activist from the Besharmi Morcha.
‘Slutwalk’, in both name and concept, is an opportunity for people to stand together against sexual violence and rights of women.
The seemingly provocative name of the movement emerged from the belief of certain individuals that women can avoid sexual assault by not dressing like a ‘slut’.
The name, according to several activists, is a quick way to break the ice and open a dialogue about issues surrounding sexual assault.
“The name achieves its purpose. We are talking about it, we are questioning it, and it has raised eyebrows and that is the reason we all are here. Had that not happened, this cause, or this walk would also have been like any other movement that happens and nobody cares about. So, yes, the Besharmi Morcha’sSlutwalk Delhi chapter has raised eyebrows and today is the day we need to look beyond the name,” said Stuti, a radio jockey.
“You have to look at the cause. The fact that we are here and any thinking individual would agree to the fact that no matter how a girl is dressed, it has nothing to do with the kind of treatment that is meted out to her. It is high time we listen to that,” she added.
Many enthusiastic college students also participated in the highly charged protest, voicing their concerns despite claiming to be aware that merely one campaign ‘would not change the attitudes and perceptions of the masses.’
“It is not safe to be on the streets of Delhi after dark. Even 8 o’clock is not a good time to get out. I know even through this walk, mindsets will not change immediately, but at least something is better than nothing. I am here to give my views and so are my friends,” said Anchal Sabharwal, a college student.
The number of registered rape cases in India has increased almost manifold in the past decades, according to theNational Crime Records Bureau.
Also, despite growing awareness, most victims fear to report the crime due to many factors, including the ‘shame’ associated with the act in often traditional and conservative communities that prize virginity as a virtue.
The flimsy defence of ‘provocation by the victim’ has also come to light in a string of rape cases in the past, and shockingly, has even caused the burden of proof to shift from the accused to the victim in courts, claim women activists.
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India’s First ‘SLUTWALK’ - What Will It Do For Women’s Rights? (WIDK)

NEW DELHI (Economic Times) - Raising their voice against sexual stereotype and gender prejudice rampant across India, hundreds of women participated in the first ever ‘Slutwalk’ in New Delhi on Sunday.

Amid much hype, the ‘Slutwalk’, held in the heart of the national capital, saw active attendance of scores of activists and locals from all walks of life, who urged the society to change the attitude of judging women based on their attire.

Organised by the ‘Besharmi Morcha’, a civil society forum working against sexual violence, the movement aimed at putting forth a serious message-no matter what the attire, sexual assault is unjustified.

Shouting slogans and raising posters and placards, activists vented their ire at the common chauvinistic prejudice that aims to allegedly justify sexual aggregation by blaming the action on ‘provocatory dresses worn by the victim.

Extending solidarity with the cause, certain activists said the campaign could help dispel attitudes and double standards about sexual assault.

“We are organising a protest against the sick mindset of the society that decides to blame women rather than perpetrators of the crime,” said Neha Sharma, an activist from the Besharmi Morcha.

‘Slutwalk’, in both name and concept, is an opportunity for people to stand together against sexual violence and rights of women.

The seemingly provocative name of the movement emerged from the belief of certain individuals that women can avoid sexual assault by not dressing like a ‘slut’.

The name, according to several activists, is a quick way to break the ice and open a dialogue about issues surrounding sexual assault.

“The name achieves its purpose. We are talking about it, we are questioning it, and it has raised eyebrows and that is the reason we all are here. Had that not happened, this cause, or this walk would also have been like any other movement that happens and nobody cares about. So, yes, the Besharmi Morcha’sSlutwalk Delhi chapter has raised eyebrows and today is the day we need to look beyond the name,” said Stuti, a radio jockey.

“You have to look at the cause. The fact that we are here and any thinking individual would agree to the fact that no matter how a girl is dressed, it has nothing to do with the kind of treatment that is meted out to her. It is high time we listen to that,” she added.

Many enthusiastic college students also participated in the highly charged protest, voicing their concerns despite claiming to be aware that merely one campaign ‘would not change the attitudes and perceptions of the masses.’

“It is not safe to be on the streets of Delhi after dark. Even 8 o’clock is not a good time to get out. I know even through this walk, mindsets will not change immediately, but at least something is better than nothing. I am here to give my views and so are my friends,” said Anchal Sabharwal, a college student.

The number of registered rape cases in India has increased almost manifold in the past decades, according to theNational Crime Records Bureau.

Also, despite growing awareness, most victims fear to report the crime due to many factors, including the ‘shame’ associated with the act in often traditional and conservative communities that prize virginity as a virtue.

The flimsy defence of ‘provocation by the victim’ has also come to light in a string of rape cases in the past, and shockingly, has even caused the burden of proof to shift from the accused to the victim in courts, claim women activists.

Rape VICTIM Jailed for Contempt – Attacker in Cell Next Door
(myFOXdetroit.com ByTaryn Asher) — It’s already extremely hard for rape victims to come to court and testify.   This alleged rape victim says the only reason she came back was to make sure this doesn’t happen to anyone else.

This woman found the courage to come back to court and testify against one of the men who she says beat her with everything from a chair, to a two-by-four and raped her repeatedly before she found a way to escape from this Strasberg Street in Detroit.
That nightmare only continued at a Wednesday hearing , when she claims defense attorney Gabi Silver kept badgering her on the stand insinuating that she brought this attack on herself, causing this victim to snap in court.
“I said just get to the point bitch, it slipped out, it was inappropriate… all the bottled anger” says the alleged victim.
Without a warning, she says 36th District Judge Vanessa Bradley held her in contempt and ordered her to spend three days in jail.
After our story aired Wednesday, exposing what happened - the judge seemed to have a change of heart and released her a day early.
But to make matters even worse, she says her time in a holding cell was spent right next door to her alleged attacker who she says threatened her life, claiming the suspect who is still on the loose will come back and kill her.  An investigation into this matter is underway.
In the end, the judge bound suspect Curtis King over for trial. The alleged victim says she’s one step closer to justice, but she hopes no other rape victim will have to go through what she did to get it.
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Rape VICTIM Jailed for Contempt – Attacker in Cell Next Door

(myFOXdetroit.com ByTaryn Asher) — It’s already extremely hard for rape victims to come to court and testify.   This alleged rape victim says the only reason she came back was to make sure this doesn’t happen to anyone else.

This woman found the courage to come back to court and testify against one of the men who she says beat her with everything from a chair, to a two-by-four and raped her repeatedly before she found a way to escape from this Strasberg Street in Detroit.

That nightmare only continued at a Wednesday hearing , when she claims defense attorney Gabi Silver kept badgering her on the stand insinuating that she brought this attack on herself, causing this victim to snap in court.

“I said just get to the point bitch, it slipped out, it was inappropriate… all the bottled anger” says the alleged victim.

Without a warning, she says 36th District Judge Vanessa Bradley held her in contempt and ordered her to spend three days in jail.

After our story aired Wednesday, exposing what happened - the judge seemed to have a change of heart and released her a day early.

But to make matters even worse, she says her time in a holding cell was spent right next door to her alleged attacker who she says threatened her life, claiming the suspect who is still on the loose will come back and kill her.  An investigation into this matter is underway.

In the end, the judge bound suspect Curtis King over for trial. The alleged victim says she’s one step closer to justice, but she hopes no other rape victim will have to go through what she did to get it.


Cheerleader Pays For Her Silence After Being Raped - Online Campaign to Support Her
SILSBEE, Texas (By Associated Press)— Rakheem Bolton approached the free-throw line as his school’s cheerleading squad rooted for him to hit the shot during a 2009 playoff game.

One cheerleader stepped away from the group, folded her arms and stood in silence, refusing to cheer for the star athlete who she says raped her at a party in this Southeast Texas town.
Now, two years later, that silent protest is drawing new attention across the nation as the result of an unusual series of events. Those events left the family of the victim, who was then 16, facing $40,000 in penalties from the legal proceedings that followed the incident, while her alleged attacker was freed after reduced charges.
An online campaign is now under way to help the family with the legal costs, which were assessed by a judge who dismissed the lawsuit they filed after she was suspended as a cheerleader for her protest. The effort has gained momentum on Facebook and Twitter and collected more than $23,000. An appeal of the financial penalty is pending in federal court.
“It’s really an awful statement to send on how you treat a teenage sexual assault victim,” said Alex DiBranco, whose petition on Change.org has gathered more than 94,000 signatures asking the district to not to make the family pay the fees. DiBranco, a New York-based women’s rights advocate, got involved after reading about the case.
The controversy is renewing debate about how the school and courts handled a sensitive matter involving teenagers, allegations made but not yet proven and a victim in a sexual incident.
The girl’s allegations stem from an October 2008 party in which she claims she was pulled into a darkened room with Bolton and several others and raped under a pool table while she was drunk. Bolton and two others were arrested after the party. A grand jury declined to indict him in January 2009. A second grand jury indicted him 10 months later. Bolton eventually pleaded guilty to a lesser assault charge in a plea deal and was given a suspended one-year sentence. Charges were dropped against two others indicted in the incident.
The girl, who was reinstated to the cheerleading squad two weeks after being suspended, filed a federal lawsuit in May 2009, claiming the school district violated her First Amendment rights as well as her rights to liberty, property and equal protection under the Fourteenth Amendment.
In court documents, school officials said they were justified in punishing her, saying that at the time of the 2009 playoff game Bolton was not facing any charges. Her conduct violated school rules and her allegations appeared to be “the story of a girl who became angry with a boy about something that may or may not have happened at a private party,” the schools’ attorneys said.
U.S. District Judge Thad Heartfield in Beaumont ruled the girl’s lawsuit was “without foundation.”
“There are no facts to support a finding that the school, or its officials, owed her any additional process,” Heartfield wrote, and ordered the family to pay the district’s legal costs. The case was appealed to the U.S. Supreme Court, which in May declined to review it, leaving the legal fees the only issue pending.
The school district remains unwilling to give the girl’s family a break on the payment. “I think the district has a fiduciary responsibility and obligation to the taxpayers to try to collect on any money that is due them,” said school board President John Griffin.
But news on the case reached sympathetic ears in others parts of the country. After reading about the case, Jessica Mills, an actress and writer in Los Angeles, started an online fundraising campaign to help pay the costs.
“I just thought this girl, she’s been through so much already, regardless of the right and wrongs and legalities of it,” said Mills, who with her friend set up the “Help the Cheerleader” web site, which lets people donate money to a bank account set up by the cheerleader’s attorney.
The girl’s father said he is humbled by the rising balance, mostly from donations of less than $20. He runs a landscaping business, and said paying the money would be a financial hardship. He said his daughter has had her ups and downs. After graduating in 2010, she took a year off and plans to attend Lamar University in Beaumont in the fall.

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Cheerleader Pays For Her Silence After Being Raped - Online Campaign to Support Her

SILSBEE, Texas (By Associated Press)— Rakheem Bolton approached the free-throw line as his school’s cheerleading squad rooted for him to hit the shot during a 2009 playoff game.

One cheerleader stepped away from the group, folded her arms and stood in silence, refusing to cheer for the star athlete who she says raped her at a party in this Southeast Texas town.

Now, two years later, that silent protest is drawing new attention across the nation as the result of an unusual series of events. Those events left the family of the victim, who was then 16, facing $40,000 in penalties from the legal proceedings that followed the incident, while her alleged attacker was freed after reduced charges.

An online campaign is now under way to help the family with the legal costs, which were assessed by a judge who dismissed the lawsuit they filed after she was suspended as a cheerleader for her protest. The effort has gained momentum on Facebook and Twitter and collected more than $23,000. An appeal of the financial penalty is pending in federal court.

“It’s really an awful statement to send on how you treat a teenage sexual assault victim,” said Alex DiBranco, whose petition on Change.org has gathered more than 94,000 signatures asking the district to not to make the family pay the fees. DiBranco, a New York-based women’s rights advocate, got involved after reading about the case.

The controversy is renewing debate about how the school and courts handled a sensitive matter involving teenagers, allegations made but not yet proven and a victim in a sexual incident.

The girl’s allegations stem from an October 2008 party in which she claims she was pulled into a darkened room with Bolton and several others and raped under a pool table while she was drunk. Bolton and two others were arrested after the party. A grand jury declined to indict him in January 2009. A second grand jury indicted him 10 months later. Bolton eventually pleaded guilty to a lesser assault charge in a plea deal and was given a suspended one-year sentence. Charges were dropped against two others indicted in the incident.

The girl, who was reinstated to the cheerleading squad two weeks after being suspended, filed a federal lawsuit in May 2009, claiming the school district violated her First Amendment rights as well as her rights to liberty, property and equal protection under the Fourteenth Amendment.

In court documents, school officials said they were justified in punishing her, saying that at the time of the 2009 playoff game Bolton was not facing any charges. Her conduct violated school rules and her allegations appeared to be “the story of a girl who became angry with a boy about something that may or may not have happened at a private party,” the schools’ attorneys said.

U.S. District Judge Thad Heartfield in Beaumont ruled the girl’s lawsuit was “without foundation.”

“There are no facts to support a finding that the school, or its officials, owed her any additional process,” Heartfield wrote, and ordered the family to pay the district’s legal costs. The case was appealed to the U.S. Supreme Court, which in May declined to review it, leaving the legal fees the only issue pending.

The school district remains unwilling to give the girl’s family a break on the payment. “I think the district has a fiduciary responsibility and obligation to the taxpayers to try to collect on any money that is due them,” said school board President John Griffin.

But news on the case reached sympathetic ears in others parts of the country. After reading about the case, Jessica Mills, an actress and writer in Los Angeles, started an online fundraising campaign to help pay the costs.

“I just thought this girl, she’s been through so much already, regardless of the right and wrongs and legalities of it,” said Mills, who with her friend set up the “Help the Cheerleader” web site, which lets people donate money to a bank account set up by the cheerleader’s attorney.

The girl’s father said he is humbled by the rising balance, mostly from donations of less than $20. He runs a landscaping business, and said paying the money would be a financial hardship. He said his daughter has had her ups and downs. After graduating in 2010, she took a year off and plans to attend Lamar University in Beaumont in the fall.

Thai Women Cheer First Female Prime Minister
(Reuters By Ploy Ten Kate) — After six prime ministers in six years of sometimes bloody political upheaval, Thais might be excused for shrugging their shoulders about voting in number seven.

But this time there’s one big difference. The new prime minister will be a woman, the first to hold the position in Thailand.
Yingluck Shinawatra, a 44-year-old businesswoman who wasn’t even in politics two months ago, is poised to get the top job after the stunning election victory of Puea Thai (For Thais), whose de facto leader is her brother, fugitive ex-premier Thaksin Shinawatra.
Yingluck, known as Pou (Crab), the nickname her parents gave her, has never run for office or held a government post, so she has a lot to prove to show she can run the country.
But some Thais, especially females, want to give her the benefit of the doubt and see this as a big step for women in a country where they have struggled for equal representation in government.
“I’ve always wanted to have the first lady prime minister,” said Areerak Saelim, 42-year-old owner of a sunglass shop in a Bangkok market.
“I’ve seen too many men failing to run the country. Maybe this time, things will be different. What women are — and men aren’t — is meticulous. I’m pretty sure she can do the job based on her age and successful career.”
Yingluck has promised to revive her brother’s populist policies and raise living standards among the poor, vowing to pursue national reconciliation to end a six-year political crisis, without seeking vengeance for her brother’s overthrow by the military in 2006.
“More and more women are capable, knowledgeable and can actually get the job done these days,” said Yaowalak Poolthong, first executive vice-president of Krung Thai Bank Pcl.
“I don’t think gender should be an issue, limiting who can or can’t do the job.”
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Thai Women Cheer First Female Prime Minister

(Reuters By Ploy Ten Kate) — After six prime ministers in six years of sometimes bloody political upheaval, Thais might be excused for shrugging their shoulders about voting in number seven.

But this time there’s one big difference. The new prime minister will be a woman, the first to hold the position in Thailand.

Yingluck Shinawatra, a 44-year-old businesswoman who wasn’t even in politics two months ago, is poised to get the top job after the stunning election victory of Puea Thai (For Thais), whose de facto leader is her brother, fugitive ex-premier Thaksin Shinawatra.

Yingluck, known as Pou (Crab), the nickname her parents gave her, has never run for office or held a government post, so she has a lot to prove to show she can run the country.

But some Thais, especially females, want to give her the benefit of the doubt and see this as a big step for women in a country where they have struggled for equal representation in government.

“I’ve always wanted to have the first lady prime minister,” said Areerak Saelim, 42-year-old owner of a sunglass shop in a Bangkok market.

“I’ve seen too many men failing to run the country. Maybe this time, things will be different. What women are — and men aren’t — is meticulous. I’m pretty sure she can do the job based on her age and successful career.”

Yingluck has promised to revive her brother’s populist policies and raise living standards among the poor, vowing to pursue national reconciliation to end a six-year political crisis, without seeking vengeance for her brother’s overthrow by the military in 2006.

“More and more women are capable, knowledgeable and can actually get the job done these days,” said Yaowalak Poolthong, first executive vice-president of Krung Thai Bank Pcl.

“I don’t think gender should be an issue, limiting who can or can’t do the job.”

300 Girls TURNED INTO Boys
(Telegraph by DEAN NELSON)—Madhya Pradesh state government is investigating claims that up to 300 girls were surgically turned into boys in one city after their parents paid about $3,000 each for the operations.

Women’s and children’s rights campaigners denounced the practice as a “social madness” that made a “mockery of women in India”.
India’s gender balance has already been tilted in favor of boys by female feticide – sex selection abortions - by families who fear the high marriage costs and dowries they may have to pay. There are now seven million more boys than girls under age six in the country.
Campaigners said the use of surgery meant that girls were no longer safe even after birth.
The row emerged after newspapers disclosed children from throughout India were being operated on by doctors in Indore, Madhya Pradesh.
Doctors confronted in the investigation claimed that girls with genital abnormalities were being sent to the city’s clinics to be “surgically corrected” and that only children born with both male and female sexual characteristics were eligible for the procedure. But campaigners said the parents and doctors were misindentifying the children’s conditions to turn girls into boys.
The surgery, known as genitoplasty, fashions a penis from female organs, with the child being injected with male hormones to create a boy.
Dr. V P Goswami, the president of the Indian Academy of Paediatrics in Indore, described the disclosures as shocking and warned parents that the procedure would leave their child impotent and infertile in adulthood.
“Genitoplasty is possible on a normal baby of both the sexes but later on these organs will not grow with the hormonal influence and this will lead to their infertility as well as their impotency. It is shocking news and we will be looking into it and taking corrective measures,” he said. “Parents have to consider the social as well as the psychological impact of such procedures on the child.”
India’s National Commission for the Protection of Child Rights ordered the Madhya Pradesh government to investigate the claims and produce its findings within 15 days.
Ranjana Kumari, of the Centre for Social Research and one of India’s leading campaigners against female feticide, said the surgical transformation of girls into boys without their informed consent was a sign of India’s growing “social madness”.
She said she despaired that education had failed to stop the growing rejection of baby girls in India.
“The figures are getting worse. In 2001 there were 886 girls born to every 1,000 boys in Delhi. Today there are only 866. The more educated and rich you are, the more there is killing of girls,” she said.
“People don’t want to share their property or invest in girls’ education or pay dowries. It’s the greedy middle classes running after money. It is just so shocking and an outright violation of children’s rights.”
The government needed to address the problem by stressing the spiritual value a girl or woman brought a household in Hindu culture. “In India we say God resides in that house where there’s a woman but that has evaporated because of all this greed. We need to emphasize the spiritual wealth a girl brings to a family, but we also need to support them with financial subsidies and jobs,” she added.
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300 Girls TURNED INTO Boys

(Telegraph by DEAN NELSON)—Madhya Pradesh state government is investigating claims that up to 300 girls were surgically turned into boys in one city after their parents paid about $3,000 each for the operations.

Women’s and children’s rights campaigners denounced the practice as a “social madness” that made a “mockery of women in India”.

India’s gender balance has already been tilted in favor of boys by female feticide – sex selection abortions - by families who fear the high marriage costs and dowries they may have to pay. There are now seven million more boys than girls under age six in the country.

Campaigners said the use of surgery meant that girls were no longer safe even after birth.

The row emerged after newspapers disclosed children from throughout India were being operated on by doctors in Indore, Madhya Pradesh.

Doctors confronted in the investigation claimed that girls with genital abnormalities were being sent to the city’s clinics to be “surgically corrected” and that only children born with both male and female sexual characteristics were eligible for the procedure. But campaigners said the parents and doctors were misindentifying the children’s conditions to turn girls into boys.

The surgery, known as genitoplasty, fashions a penis from female organs, with the child being injected with male hormones to create a boy.

Dr. V P Goswami, the president of the Indian Academy of Paediatrics in Indore, described the disclosures as shocking and warned parents that the procedure would leave their child impotent and infertile in adulthood.

“Genitoplasty is possible on a normal baby of both the sexes but later on these organs will not grow with the hormonal influence and this will lead to their infertility as well as their impotency. It is shocking news and we will be looking into it and taking corrective measures,” he said. “Parents have to consider the social as well as the psychological impact of such procedures on the child.”

India’s National Commission for the Protection of Child Rights ordered the Madhya Pradesh government to investigate the claims and produce its findings within 15 days.

Ranjana Kumari, of the Centre for Social Research and one of India’s leading campaigners against female feticide, said the surgical transformation of girls into boys without their informed consent was a sign of India’s growing “social madness”.

She said she despaired that education had failed to stop the growing rejection of baby girls in India.

“The figures are getting worse. In 2001 there were 886 girls born to every 1,000 boys in Delhi. Today there are only 866. The more educated and rich you are, the more there is killing of girls,” she said.

“People don’t want to share their property or invest in girls’ education or pay dowries. It’s the greedy middle classes running after money. It is just so shocking and an outright violation of children’s rights.”

The government needed to address the problem by stressing the spiritual value a girl or woman brought a household in Hindu culture. “In India we say God resides in that house where there’s a woman but that has evaporated because of all this greed. We need to emphasize the spiritual wealth a girl brings to a family, but we also need to support them with financial subsidies and jobs,” she added.

Egypt General Defends Virginity Tests
CAIRO (AFP) - A top Egyptian military official said virginity tests were needed for female protesters to head off possible charges of rape, Amnesty International reported on Sunday.

The subject was raised by the London-based rights group’s chief, Salil Shetty, at a meeting in the Egyptian capital with the head of military intelligence, General Abdel Fattah al-Sisi.
“He said virginity tests were carried out to protect the army against possible allegations of rape, and added that the army does not intend to detain women again,” an Amnesty statement said.
Sisi is a member of the Supreme Council of the Armed Forces (SCAF), to which president Hosni Mubarak transferred power when he was ousted on February 11.
The general is the first identified Egyptian military official to acknowledge that forced virginity tests have taken place.
On May 31, Amnesty called on the authorities in Egypt to bring to justice those responsible for forced virginity tests on female protesters, slamming it as “nothing less than torture.”
Amnesty’s statement came after an apparent admission by an unnamed army general to CNN that women detained on March 9 in Cairo’s Tahrir Square had been subjected to virginity tests.
A senior military official on May 31 denied to AFP reports that the army had conducted such tests, saying “these allegations are baseless.”
Amnesty opposes forced virginity tests under any circumstances.
“Sisi said people alleging abuses should complain to the military prosecutor and could also post their complaints on the SCAF Facebook page,” the Amnesty statement said.
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Egypt General Defends Virginity Tests

CAIRO (AFP) - A top Egyptian military official said virginity tests were needed for female protesters to head off possible charges of rape, Amnesty International reported on Sunday.

The subject was raised by the London-based rights group’s chief, Salil Shetty, at a meeting in the Egyptian capital with the head of military intelligence, General Abdel Fattah al-Sisi.

“He said virginity tests were carried out to protect the army against possible allegations of rape, and added that the army does not intend to detain women again,” an Amnesty statement said.

Sisi is a member of the Supreme Council of the Armed Forces (SCAF), to which president Hosni Mubarak transferred power when he was ousted on February 11.

The general is the first identified Egyptian military official to acknowledge that forced virginity tests have taken place.

On May 31, Amnesty called on the authorities in Egypt to bring to justice those responsible for forced virginity tests on female protesters, slamming it as “nothing less than torture.”

Amnesty’s statement came after an apparent admission by an unnamed army general to CNN that women detained on March 9 in Cairo’s Tahrir Square had been subjected to virginity tests.

A senior military official on May 31 denied to AFP reports that the army had conducted such tests, saying “these allegations are baseless.”

Amnesty opposes forced virginity tests under any circumstances.

“Sisi said people alleging abuses should complain to the military prosecutor and could also post their complaints on the SCAF Facebook page,” the Amnesty statement said.

Swedish Preschool Promotes Gender Neutrality – No Use of ‘Him’ or ‘Her’
STOCKHOLM (By JENNY SOFFEL, Associated Press) — At the “Egalia” preschool, staff avoid using words like “him” or “her” and address the 33 kids as “friends” rather than girls and boys.

From the color and placement of toys to the choice of books, every detail has been carefully planned to make sure the children don’t fall into gender stereotypes.
“Society expects girls to be girlie, nice and pretty and boys to be manly, rough and outgoing,” says Jenny Johnsson, a 31-year-old teacher. “Egalia gives them a fantastic opportunity to be whoever they want to be.”
The taxpayer-funded preschool which opened last year in the liberal Sodermalm district of Stockholm for kids aged 1 to 6 is among the most radical examples of Sweden’s efforts to engineer equality between the sexes from childhood onward.
Breaking down gender roles is a core mission in the national curriculum for preschools, underpinned by the theory that even in highly egalitarian-minded Sweden, society gives boys an unfair edge.
To even things out, many preschools have hired “gender pedagogues” to help staff identify language and behavior that risk reinforcing stereotypes.
Some parents worry things have gone too far. An obsession with obliterating gender roles, they say, could make the children confused and ill-prepared to face the world outside kindergarten.
“Different gender roles aren’t problematic as long as they are equally valued,” says Tanja Bergkvist, a 37-year-old blogger and a leading voice against what she calls “gender madness” in Sweden.
Those bent on shattering gender roles “say there’s a hierarchy where everything that boys do is given higher value, but I wonder who decides that it has higher value,” she says. “Why is there higher value in playing with cars?”
At Egalia — the title connotes “equality” — boys and girls play together with a toy kitchen, waving plastic utensils and pretending to cook. One boy hides inside the toy stove, his head popping out through a hole.
Lego bricks and other building blocks are intentionally placed next to the kitchen, to make sure the children draw no mental barriers between cooking and construction.
Director Lotta Rajalin notes that Egalia places a special emphasis on fostering an environment tolerant of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people. From a bookcase, she pulls out a story about two male giraffes who are sad to be childless — until they come across an abandoned crocodile egg.
Nearly all the children’s books deal with homosexual couples, single parents or adopted children. There are no “Snow White,” “Cinderella” or other classic fairy tales seen as cementing stereotypes.
Rajalin, 52, says the staff also try to help the children discover new ideas when they play.
“A concrete example could be when they’re playing ‘house’ and the role of the mom already is taken and they start to squabble,” she says. “Then we suggest two moms or three moms and so on.”
Egalia’s methods are controversial; some say they amount to mind control. Rajalin says the staff have received threats from racists apparently upset about the preschool’s use of black dolls.
But she says that there’s a long waiting list for admission to Egalia, and that only one couple has pulled a child out of the school.
Jukka Korpi, 44, says he and his wife chose Egalia “to give our children all the possibilities based on who they are and not on their gender.”
Sweden has promoted women’s rights for decades, and more recently was a pioneer among European countries in allowing gay and lesbian couples to legalize their partnerships and adopt children.
Gender studies permeate academic life in Sweden. Bergkvist noted on her blog that the state-funded Swedish Science Council had granted $80,000 for a postdoctoral fellowship aimed at analyzing “the trumpet as a symbol of gender.”
Jay Belsky, a child psychologist at the University of California, Davis, said he’s not aware of any other school like Egalia, and he questioned whether it was the right way to go.
“The kind of things that boys like to do — run around and turn sticks into swords — will soon be disapproved of,” he said. “So gender neutrality at its worst is emasculating maleness.”
Egalia is unusual even for Sweden. Staff try to shed masculine and feminine references from their speech, including the pronouns him or her — “han” or “hon” in Swedish. Instead, they’ve have adopted the genderless “hen,” a word that doesn’t exist in Swedish but is used in some feminist and gay circles.
“We use the word “Hen” for example when a doctor, police, electrician or plumber or such is coming to the kindergarten,” Rajalin says. “We don’t know if it’s a he or a she so we just say ‘Hen is coming around 2 p.m.’ Then the children can imagine both a man or a woman. This widens their view.”
Egalia doesn’t deny the biological differences between boys and girls — the dolls the children play with are anatomically correct.
What matters is that children understand that their biological differences “don’t mean boys and girls have different interests and abilities,” Rajalin says. “This is about democracy. About human equality.”
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Swedish Preschool Promotes Gender Neutrality – No Use of ‘Him’ or ‘Her’

STOCKHOLM (By JENNY SOFFEL, Associated Press) — At the “Egalia” preschool, staff avoid using words like “him” or “her” and address the 33 kids as “friends” rather than girls and boys.

From the color and placement of toys to the choice of books, every detail has been carefully planned to make sure the children don’t fall into gender stereotypes.

“Society expects girls to be girlie, nice and pretty and boys to be manly, rough and outgoing,” says Jenny Johnsson, a 31-year-old teacher. “Egalia gives them a fantastic opportunity to be whoever they want to be.”

The taxpayer-funded preschool which opened last year in the liberal Sodermalm district of Stockholm for kids aged 1 to 6 is among the most radical examples of Sweden’s efforts to engineer equality between the sexes from childhood onward.

Breaking down gender roles is a core mission in the national curriculum for preschools, underpinned by the theory that even in highly egalitarian-minded Sweden, society gives boys an unfair edge.

To even things out, many preschools have hired “gender pedagogues” to help staff identify language and behavior that risk reinforcing stereotypes.

Some parents worry things have gone too far. An obsession with obliterating gender roles, they say, could make the children confused and ill-prepared to face the world outside kindergarten.

“Different gender roles aren’t problematic as long as they are equally valued,” says Tanja Bergkvist, a 37-year-old blogger and a leading voice against what she calls “gender madness” in Sweden.

Those bent on shattering gender roles “say there’s a hierarchy where everything that boys do is given higher value, but I wonder who decides that it has higher value,” she says. “Why is there higher value in playing with cars?”

At Egalia — the title connotes “equality” — boys and girls play together with a toy kitchen, waving plastic utensils and pretending to cook. One boy hides inside the toy stove, his head popping out through a hole.

Lego bricks and other building blocks are intentionally placed next to the kitchen, to make sure the children draw no mental barriers between cooking and construction.

Director Lotta Rajalin notes that Egalia places a special emphasis on fostering an environment tolerant of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people. From a bookcase, she pulls out a story about two male giraffes who are sad to be childless — until they come across an abandoned crocodile egg.

Nearly all the children’s books deal with homosexual couples, single parents or adopted children. There are no “Snow White,” “Cinderella” or other classic fairy tales seen as cementing stereotypes.

Rajalin, 52, says the staff also try to help the children discover new ideas when they play.

“A concrete example could be when they’re playing ‘house’ and the role of the mom already is taken and they start to squabble,” she says. “Then we suggest two moms or three moms and so on.”

Egalia’s methods are controversial; some say they amount to mind control. Rajalin says the staff have received threats from racists apparently upset about the preschool’s use of black dolls.

But she says that there’s a long waiting list for admission to Egalia, and that only one couple has pulled a child out of the school.

Jukka Korpi, 44, says he and his wife chose Egalia “to give our children all the possibilities based on who they are and not on their gender.”

Sweden has promoted women’s rights for decades, and more recently was a pioneer among European countries in allowing gay and lesbian couples to legalize their partnerships and adopt children.

Gender studies permeate academic life in Sweden. Bergkvist noted on her blog that the state-funded Swedish Science Council had granted $80,000 for a postdoctoral fellowship aimed at analyzing “the trumpet as a symbol of gender.”

Jay Belsky, a child psychologist at the University of California, Davis, said he’s not aware of any other school like Egalia, and he questioned whether it was the right way to go.

“The kind of things that boys like to do — run around and turn sticks into swords — will soon be disapproved of,” he said. “So gender neutrality at its worst is emasculating maleness.”

Egalia is unusual even for Sweden. Staff try to shed masculine and feminine references from their speech, including the pronouns him or her — “han” or “hon” in Swedish. Instead, they’ve have adopted the genderless “hen,” a word that doesn’t exist in Swedish but is used in some feminist and gay circles.

“We use the word “Hen” for example when a doctor, police, electrician or plumber or such is coming to the kindergarten,” Rajalin says. “We don’t know if it’s a he or a she so we just say ‘Hen is coming around 2 p.m.’ Then the children can imagine both a man or a woman. This widens their view.”

Egalia doesn’t deny the biological differences between boys and girls — the dolls the children play with are anatomically correct.

What matters is that children understand that their biological differences “don’t mean boys and girls have different interests and abilities,” Rajalin says. “This is about democracy. About human equality.”

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(WIDK By Danny Fisher/Photos-TMZ) — New photos emerged of Anthony Weiner at the gym for members of the House.   One of the photos shows Weiner full figure, completely naked, covering his genitals with a towel.  In another, he is wrapped in a towel and grabbing his crotch.

Anthony Weiner grabs his crotch in gym for House members

Meanwhile, Nancy Pelosi and DNC Chairwoman Debbie Wasserman Schultz said yesterday Weiner should resign and “seek help,” calling his sending explicit photos and inappropriate emails to women all over the country “indefensible” and a distraction.

Anthony Weiner nearly completely naked in gym for House members

“Congressman Weiner has the love of his family, the confidence of his constituents, and the recognition that he needs help. I urge Congressman Weiner to seek that help without the pressures of being a Member of Congress,” Pelosi said in a statement released yesterday.

Anthony Weiner naked in gym for House members

Wasserman Schultz called Weiner’s continued service in Congress “untenable,” and added that “this sordid affair has become an unacceptable distraction.”

Yesterday, Weiner told reporters: “Look I’ve made some serious mistakes here. I have to redeem myself and I’m going to try to get back to work. These were personal failings and I’m trying not to let it get into my professional work.”

He insisted that he’s not going to resign over the sex scandal. “I have no news today,” he said. “Nothing has changed.”

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(Daily Mail Reporter) — A woman has been awarded a staggering $95 million in compensation in a sexual harassment case against her former employers - believed to be America’s highest ever payout.

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Ashley Alford, in her mid-20s, won the award from her former employers, Aaron’s of St Louis, after a manager in the furniture and electrical store allegedly attacked her in a stockroom, lifting her shirt and masturbating over her while holding her down.

Prosecutors alleged Richard Moore - who is still awaiting trial - would pinch Miss Alford and make inappropriate comments before the 2006 attack.

They say on two occasions he hit her on the head with his penis.

On the second occasion, in October 2006, he was also said to have held her down on the warehouse floor, lifted her shirt and masturbated until he ejaculated on her.

Miss Alford’s lawyer David Ratner said: ‘From what we can tell, this is the absolute largest sex harassment verdict in the country for an individual plaintiff.’

Miss Alford claimed the assault came after almost a year of escalating harassment in a work environment, ‘rife with sexual jokes and lewd propositions.’

In court documents, Miss Alford said Mr Moore sought ‘sexual favors in return for her continued employment, her ability to leave for lunch or take a longer lunch hour and her ability to take a vacation.

‘For example, Alford testified that Moore gave her unsought gifts for which he demanded ‘sucky-sucky.”

She testified that in September 2006, Mr Moore grabbed her by her ponytail, unzipped his trousers, pulled her head back and hit her in the head with his penis.

The papers continued: ‘On October 12, 2006, Moore again grabbed Alford, pulled her head against his pants, pulled out his penis and hit her on the head with it.’

In a second attack that day, he was said to have held her down, lifted her shirt and masturbated until he ejaculated on her.

Mr Moore’s semen and DNA were later found on paper towels collected by the police.

Despite the massive $95 million award, it is understood a federal cap on harassment damages will limit the total to around $41.6 million.

The court heard how Miss Alford called an internal harassment hotline in May 2006 to report the alleged abuse, but said the complaint was never properly followed up.

She added that at some point after the call she was approached by Mr Moore’s supervisor, who confronted her in front of Mr Moore.

Mr Moore’s boss was then said to have told him to ‘watch his back’ because of the complaint.

Miss Alford claims that after the confrontation she was denied a promotion for complaining about the alleged assault.

In deciding the damages, jurors were told that the company was worth $980 million and made $118 million last year in profit.

The Atlanta based company has 1,800 stores nationwide and employs more than 10,000 people.

The company found Aaron’s liable for negligent supervision, sexual harassment and intentional infliction of emotional distress.

The suit was originally filed by the U.S. government Equal Employment opportunity Commission in 2008, before Miss Alford’s lawyers took over the case.

Judy Cates, the lawyer who originally filed the suit, said after the decision: ‘This company has always denied responsibility and continues to deny its responsibility to its workers.’

She added the jury: ‘Wanted to send a message to Aaron’s to change the culture and environment for their employees.’

Chad Strickland, vice president of associate resources at Aaron’s said:  ‘Aaron’s is extremely disappointed with the jury’s verdict and believes that the award does not accurately reflect the evidence that was presented in this case.’